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Then, give them a try.
Also, if in the case the first Coach you get doesn't fulfill your expectation, then try another one.
The same like in anything on live.
Also is the same concept for being disappointed by people keeping discouraging you.
If someone doesn't approve your idea, it doesn't mean they or you are wrong.
What I'd consider in that situation is HOW COMMITED you are with your point of view. Means, if you think that art CAN BE PROFITABLE, and you find people like 'always' telling you the opposite, GIVE THEM A THANKS to keep you On-guard and smile convinced that you know what you are talking about. It doesn't mean to be blind or stupid, but also give to the situation, a thought. Sounds crazy, but is true at less for me.
Your 'angry' emotion is (maybe) telling you, that you need to reinforce the idea. And it's a good signal; it's there to help you. If you are convinced, then, there is no fight.
We can't control most of external events, including other people point of view, but we DEFINITELLY CAN change ourselves if we feel uncomfortable, or DO something about it.
Without going out of the main point here, I can see almost anyone can easily be a COACH IN CERTAIN AREAS, so this is hard to find who is expert in which are with anticipation.
Thanks Rich for your power of simplification!! Like a Guru.
By the way, most of us want to learn by our own instead to be guided by a consultant. Just sometime could be good to delegate some stuff to be handled by someone else.
That's not bad when you need it, sometimes.
And about the Coach, I believe, most of us are afraid to don't get that kind of...sync, that kind of mutual understanding about what I PRETEND and what the Coach MAKE US SEE it.
A great Coach can be that person, that tells you exactly what you waiting for to listen. The rest, depend on you.
Because we KNOW what we want, it's just hidden.
Also, it would be similar to 'marriage': we always pretend more from the other side, but...
* Are we demanding with ourselves to DO the exercise Coach would give us?
* Are we open mind enough to try different approach to something without pre-judge it or reject it?
I'm not coming here to teach nobody, this is actually happening to me also and I'm thinking it out loud, I try to learn and share.
Being positive is good. But not enough.
But being committed to our own word...is taught sometime, because of those rules we have.
And that's when we are starting to Coach ourselves.
When we start to know (therefore, improve) ourselves a little more.
Isn't it?
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