April 28, 2014 10:58 AM EDT
I agree about the homepage looking too busy. I would suggest a different layout for your main body. Also lighten the background to almost white, like setting the pattern at 5%, or if you want to continue with elements like the parchment look of the menu bar on the left, all black background. Consider switching out the font for lines like the "Shipping Included..." "Themed Wine Tasting..." and "Browse," the serifed font you have gives it an antiquated look in a bad way. Something san serried like Century Gothic or Gotham would give it a modern, clean, professional look.
Not trying to be harsh or anything, just some friendly suggestions. Your logo is nice, I think the silhouette is well done and should be featured larger to help views identify/remember it. If you need some help with the design work check out http://www.freelancehour.com, they can connect you with designers for different graphic services.
Hope this is helpful, good luck on your site!