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madnonnie

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Nov 29, 2007 3:58 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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 I have recently started an Internet company, while I was researching, educating and discovering the ways of the Internet I keep coming across the same problem... "BIG HUGE WALLS"... LOL 
 
A little about me. I am happily married with two small boys, 40 years old,
have a degree in real estate and own several small construction
oriented businesses. I like to think that I am fairly intelligent and I have a work ethic that would rival Donald Trump. I came up with the idea for my company several
years ago and decided to take a chance two years ago. I spent six
months looking all over the world putting together a small team of
programmers, graphics people and marketing gurus. This has been the
single most complicated task I have ever attempted in my entire life and
to this day I still embrace it with a smile from ear to ear. I love
everything about it!
 
My biggest problem is experience. I have all the "want" in the world
but not the "know how"... I am leading my team somewhat blindly and
your pointers would be invaluable. I constantly see start ups launch and begin to thrive as if God himself were helping... Is there a secret club that I don`t know about?
 
Why is this soooooo hard and what can I do to expedite things quicker. My number one problem is programmers. I can do and/or get anything done with the exception of programming. I have one programmer and he is drowning. Very smart and a hard worker but as you know the world changes on a daily basis and we must change with it. Does anyone have a "Ten Step" program or is there anyone out there who has made and now your goal in life is to help others "Make It"???  If so I am your guy!
 
Thank you so much for listening and I look forward to hearing from you soon.
 
madnonnie11/29/2007 4:01 PM


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Jeff Kilgore

"Your life is designed to give you the results that you are getting"

Founder - Madnonnie.com

"It`s Like A Whole `Nother Internet"
CraigL

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Nov 29, 2007 5:13 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Are you talking about leadership, management, or motivation?

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Defining the undefinable. "There are 10 kinds of people in the world---those who understand binary numbers and those who don`t." - Unknown

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CampSteve

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Nov 29, 2007 5:15 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Yes, I`m not sure what "walls" you are running into.  If it is with programming, then you might need to reevaluate your current status.  Is your programmer working out?  Do you need more than one?  Is it your own leadership that is perhaps clashing with the development process?

Tell us what you think is holding up the progress.



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Steve Lowtwa
madnonnie

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Nov 29, 2007 5:20 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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I`m not sure whats the problem your facing, you stated something about programing, what type of program your designer are working on, and what you need the program for?

 
I am looking for another programmer with experience in asp.net for starters. A partner, mentor and/or a person with unlimited disposable income.... Any of these would help greatly. That`s kind of the problem... I have alot of great ideas and now i need someone to take them from my head and build a program to match.... thank you for your comment.







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madnonnie11/29/2007 5:34 PM


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Jeff Kilgore

"Your life is designed to give you the results that you are getting"

Founder - Madnonnie.com

"It`s Like A Whole `Nother Internet"
madnonnie

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Nov 29, 2007 5:20 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Are you talking about leadership, management, or motivation?
 
 
see below... thanks for your comment as well...


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Jeff Kilgore

"Your life is designed to give you the results that you are getting"

Founder - Madnonnie.com

"It`s Like A Whole `Nother Internet"
madnonnie

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Nov 29, 2007 5:33 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Yes, I`m not sure what "walls" you are running into.  If it is with programming, then you might need to reevaluate your current status.  Is your programmer working out?  Do you need more than one?  Is it your own leadership that is perhaps clashing with the development process?

Tell us what you think is holding up the progress.


 
OK so here is the skinny... I don`t know what the problem is... I have a programmer that seems to be a hard worker but we move at a snails pace.... In my current line of business if I need a hole dug I find some one to do it right then. If I cant find someone I grab the shovel and dig the hole myself.  In the Internet world I cant do that. I give explicit instructions and then I sit and wait...................... and then I ask where we are (days later) and I wait some more until he is able to complete the task. I have never launched a website much less maintained one. So from time to time I am sure that I make mistakes. Everyone does right?
 
What I am looking for is direction, help and/or tools that you might see that would help. I think to myself all the time " why cant I find more people like me"? I know they are out there and they have to be going through the same ups and downs as I. Wouldn`t it be great if we all pulled our resources together and helped one another. I know that this site is designed for that and I appreciate each and every person that took the time to read this. I am just frustrated and sometimes I think that there has to be another way that I am missing. I hope that you can appreciate that... 
madnonnie11/29/2007 5:35 PM


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"Your life is designed to give you the results that you are getting"

Founder - Madnonnie.com

"It`s Like A Whole `Nother Internet"
madnonnie

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Nov 29, 2007 5:52 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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WOW... That was alot... lol.... Thank you "Stuck-in-a-rut" and I get it..... That may even be me... who knows???  Point is I am an overwhelmingly positive person and I refuse to give up. I will make this work, it just might take more time and money then I would have to spend if some compassionate person out there could save me the trouble of making the same mistakes that they made and push me off in the right direction.

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Jeff Kilgore

"Your life is designed to give you the results that you are getting"

Founder - Madnonnie.com

"It`s Like A Whole `Nother Internet"
CampSteve

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Nov 29, 2007 5:53 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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I`m starting a web business myself and it is taking much longer than I would have anticipated, had I really anticipated it.  My developer is a partner in the biz and I know she is making great progress for us, and is hard working.  Since she isn`t working under me, rather as an equal partner, I`m learning to go with the flow.  But at the same time, I work hard to keep momentum and enthusiasm alive.

Have you talked with your programmer about the pacing of development?  From the very little information you`ve given on the situation, it sounds like you are being sort of passive aggressive by calling and waiting, calling and waiting.  Be direct with him and discuss picking up the pace.  But don`t belittle his work ethic.  Give constructive criticism and be ready with answers and ideas to strengthen your working relationship.

I suggest doing some reading on management skills.  Unless there is previous experience, managing is an art that us entrepreneurs are often thrown into without much understanding.  Here`s a wonderful resource from one of our members here at SuN - Great Management.



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Steve Lowtwa
madnonnie

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Nov 29, 2007 6:03 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Thank you Steve.... I have been VERY successful in all my endeavors to this point. I understand what you are saying and I will give the benefit of the doubt and agree that I may be a part of the problem. I don`t think this is the case but there is always a chance. He is not lazy, he is just slow. When we first started he was very aggressive almost like a child to show me what he had done at school.... now he seems to be tired.... so I don`t want this to be a programmer bashing ... that is not the case. Bottom line is I seem to be stuck - in - a - rut... lol  I could use another cracker jack programmer and any advice the panel wants to give. Good or bad...

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Jeff Kilgore

"Your life is designed to give you the results that you are getting"

Founder - Madnonnie.com

"It`s Like A Whole `Nother Internet"
CraigL

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Nov 29, 2007 6:36 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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First of all, let`s always remember the instant gratification mindset of so many people these days. Secondly, let`s keep in mind that almost ALL the "overnight" successes you hear about took years and years.

You`ve mentioned that you look at other companies and see them growing as if they have a magic wand, golden goose, or direct line to heaven. The likelihood is there are only a rare few companies like that. It may "appear" as if they`re growing without much effort, but that`s appearances.

As for your issues with the programmer, you may want to consider setting milestones and incentives. For example, you speak with this programmer and ask for an outline of modules. Not the programming modules, in technical jargon, but the "blocks" of code that will be required in order to reach some basic milestone.

Then you ask about when s/he thinks they`ll be delivered---each one, not the final segment. At that point, you explain that if they reach that deadline, they`ll be paid whatever you`re contracting. However, if they reach each section ahead of time, you`ll pay them X amount more for each day ahead of schedule.

Finally, keep in mind that specialized skills are just that: specialized. Otherwise everyone could do them, nobody would pay for them, and you wouldn`t have a problem. Digging a hole? Any idiot can dig a hole. Program a complex Web system with ASP.net? I don`t think so.

You may have some unrealistic expectations. I don`t know, that`s a research question for you to examine. I do know you`re likely not going to find a partner with unlimited disposable income. :-D If you do, could you mention my name, too?


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Defining the undefinable. "There are 10 kinds of people in the world---those who understand binary numbers and those who don`t." - Unknown

International Society of Curmudgeons
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