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bmwsmity

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Sep 15, 2008 1:06 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Just wanted to share a recent experience that hopefully will give some of you encouragement.

I recently came to a point in my business that was pretty low.  I was contemplating throwing in the towel and just going back to being a 9-5`er again.  Things weren`t picking up, sales were way down from last year, and to top it off, my spouse was being extremely discouraging as usual.

I felt as though I had gave it my best effort, and that maybe I just wasn`t ready for my own business yet.  I owed creditors money, hadn`t been able to pay my gas cards for months, and I owed one of my suppliers thousands.

I felt like all I had done was bury myself in debt and create stress on my family instead of give them a brighter future.

Well, I continued on.  I kept up my grassroots marketing efforts (mailers, doorhangers) and tried to stay positive in my negative environment and circumstances.  Then I got a call from a referral source...one who gave me my largest job last year.

I visited the home of the referral and got some design concepts together, and then I made the best design I`ve done yet...and the largest.

It wound up taking me 6 weeks to finally pitch my design and estimate to the homeowner.  I just was not going to give up on this one.  He was a very busy guy, so he was often out of town.  Finally, I sent a really nice info pack with pictures of my work to him and his wife.

I got the meeting a few days later... and I sold the largest job to date.  In fact, it was 3 times larger than my previous record.  Even better, the profit will totally bring me current on everything again and leave me some left over for the winter off season.

It just goes to show that in your darkest hour is when you need to re-double your efforts and stick it out.  Just when you think it is all crashing down is when you will often make your largest advances toward success.

Keep with it, and always be very hesitant to throw in the towel... you never know what tomorrow will bring!





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CraigL

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Sep 15, 2008 1:36 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Congratulations on the big contract :-) I don`t believe we can do anything, really, on a conscious level to affect the unknowns. But I do believe that at other levels, the universe is moving along on a plan....like the plot in a story. If you`re going in the right direction, these kinds of serendipitous opportunities come along, just enough to keep you hangin` in there.

On the other hand, you could just as easily have cashed in your chips, looked for a 9-5 job, and stumbled into something that would have changed your life entirely.

Since we have no way of knowing what`s "supposed to happen," and we have no useful communications with "whatever" is running things, it seems to me that we should do what seems like the best idea at the time. At least that brings in some modicum of intuition.
chefamy

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Sep 15, 2008 6:33 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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I have been through almost the same scenario!  We actually met with a bankruptcy attorney and then it hit me, don`t just stop.  Now we are sitting on our largest order, we will be current with 60% of debt and we are growing!  WOW what if I had just quit?  You never know.



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Csanford

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Sep 15, 2008 7:05 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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That is very amazing, and I`m very proud that you didn`t just give up as most people would.
That shows a very high level of emotional intelligence to stick something out reguardless of
what society, spouses, or just in general terms, people that have to say something about what
you`re doing. Like my dad once told me"Corey when you have people that hate you that`s when
you know your doing something right"
 
-Corey
 
st8ic

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Sep 15, 2008 9:25 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Truely a wonderful story. Very inspirational. The best advice I ever got was from the movie Blow:

"This is the way it goes...sometimes you`re flush, and sometimes you`re bust. And when you`re up, it`s never as good as it seems, and when you`re down, you never think you`re going to be up again. But life goes on. Remember that. Money isn`t real, George. It doesn`t matter. It only seems like it does."
sarastvnsn

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Sep 16, 2008 11:34 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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one of the biggest things that I have learned being self employed is that there is a definet ebb and flow to money and we have to be strong enough to take the good  with the bad and to be persistant the whole time.

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besthealth

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Sep 17, 2008 11:51 AM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Congratulations!
I can certainly relate to the idea of throwing in the towel. Those days come when one feels at though they may not have made the right choice. However, since it is such a big part of me, I never ever let it go - instead the ideas of adding and improving my business keeps flowing. We offer training/workshops to health care organizations and during a networking event, I was speaking with someone from a coroprate company that asked for our training - - it actually pays to be dilligent.


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