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creativelyse

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Apr 23, 2007 1:53 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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I thought I`d repost this and it`d be useful here. Though I deal mostly with creative types, this is important for all entrepreneurs!

 

Self-Care Strategies

By Kristen Fischer

www.creativelyselfemployed.com

As creatives, it seems we have to learn everything by trial and error. One area I am still exploring is taking care of myself. I`ve got the business thing down; I just need to learn when to take a break and not to not less the stress from the job I love get to me. It`s a lesson I learn over and over again by employing different strategies each time.

Still recovering from the worst sinus infection ever, I have a natural curiosity to find out how to prevent this from happening again. With an innately weak immune system, I am susceptible to physical reactions from stress. Even though I exercise regularly, eat and sleep well--and take time to relax--I still managed to get sick this week. I have been working super hard and dealing with the frustration that comes with trying to buy a house. The emotions related to both are so deeply wound inside that it seems only logical they would manifest physically into a sinus infection. The mother of all sinus infections.

Whatever the reason, I know many creative freelancers experience stress, which can cause physical illnesses. That`s why I think many of us can benefit from some tips on self-care with regard to managing a creative business. (Keep in mind, I am no expert on this--as I said...I`m still learning myself!)

  1. Stay organized. For me, having everything written down and separated into different notebooks, my planner and even a dry erase board helps. I know exactly what I need to do each day, and it helps from things floating around "upstairs. When you write it down, you release it. Trust that you`ll get to all the work you need to when your lists are out there so you won`t forget what has to get done.

  1. Check in. During my workday, I try to remember to check in with myself. I rate my stress level, and if it is high I take a break. Another thing that works is giving myself a time limit to finish something. For example, I give myself an hour to work on Project A, and then I get to surf blogs or go for a workout afterwards. Having rewards has helped, as has setting limits. During that time I am working, I know I don`t have to think about anything else...and if I do, I use the reward to keep myself on track.

  1. Take it easy. Even hard workers like us need to take a rest from the work that we love. I schedule my lunch to coincide with Days of our Lives. Hey, even if you don`t like the drama, find something to do on a break that you enjoy. I also give myself an afternoon nap if and when I need one. As a workaholic, I can always make time for more business at night. But it`s important to nurture myself and coordinate my career with my internal clock.

I realize that you may not have a crummy sinus system. Or that soap operas may not be your cup of tea. But like I said, it is important to devise tactics to help you take care of yourself. Even if you don`t get physically ill from stress, who wants to be miserable doing what they are meant to do? Not I! That`s why I take steps to prevent burnout. One day, I`ll perfect it and my doctor will be happy with me. As will my sinuses.

For now, I`ve only got 4 days left of antibiotics and plenty of Puffs tissues on my desk to get me through it. Oh yeah, and I`ve been working in bed...laptop in hand and Bobbie cat at my feet. Being sick may not be so bad after all. But I`d rather be better!

Kristen Fischer is a copywriter living in New Jersey. Creatively Self-Employed: How Writers Deal with Career Ups and Downs is her first book. For more information, visit ww.creativelyselfemployed.com.

This article may be reprinted free of charge so long as it is in its entirety.

nhgnikole

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Apr 23, 2007 3:08 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Man, I`m the worst with this.

I`m sick right now too ... because I`m getting a max of 4 hours of sleep last night. My husband "busted" me when he got up for work at 5 am, I was still up working.

Not to mention the bad hip I`m not taking care of, the exercise I`m not getting, the constant back pain ...

I did take a few days off though .. it was hard, and I have to force myself to do it, but it`s important. My 1yo and I made a garden one day, and we went to the zoo with my husband on the other. Both very low-tech things ... and very good for me.
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Apr 23, 2007 4:06 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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I`m curious ... what makes you say you have an innately weak immune system? Do you have leukopenia? Have you had a splenectomy? P.S. I`m just curious, this isn`t a question for which a response is required.

creativelyse

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Apr 23, 2007 5:05 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Cookie: ihad mono in college and i get colds really easily.

 

NH: It is so hard just to take a day off sometimes, isn`t it??

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Apr 23, 2007 5:23 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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I had mono later in life and it had a high misery factor. I`m not sure if you`re a compulsive handwasher ... I am ... but it`s a great way to avoid germs. Maybe you could add that to your list. Wash hands five times a day. Always after touching public door handles and ATM keypads. p.s. I bet your immune system isn`t innately weak. If it were you`d have much bigger problems than colds.
CraigL

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Apr 24, 2007 5:42 AM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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The simplest self-care strategy is a single question: "Am I having fun?"

If you`re not having fun, all sorts of things start going wrong, including health. Life`s supposed to be fun, basically. Yes, there are many things we have to experience to grow, to learn, to get ideas, to get feedback and so forth. But it`s supposed to be basically fun!

Most people go through tough times. Sometimes, they`re really hard. So ask yourself, "If I hadn`t gone through that at the time, what wouldn`t exist in my life today?"

If you really and truly can`t see that something is either fun or that you`re learning something that`s going to be highly useful at some later point, then that`s when you have to start questioning if you`re going in a bad direction.

There really isn`t a "bad" direction, per se. The Universe always strives for a balance. The problem is that this balance is like water. If a heavy rainfall dumps lots of water in one place, it`ll try to even out. If you happen to live in a flood plain, then when that water "balances," you`ll likely lose your home. It`s a bad thing for you, but a good thing for the water.

So the problem is to figure out if what you`re doing isn`t what your basic nature is designed to be doing. If life is a constant struggle, rarely fun, and filled with obstacles and problems, then you`re likely taking the very long way around. You`ll eventually get where you ought to have been. The problem is you may be 90 years old by that time.
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