Someone mentioned how important it is to write down your goals. I couldn`t agree more. One thing to keep in mind is this: If your "goal" takes more than one step to complete, you are MUCH more likely to put it off. As you write down short- and long-term goals, be sure to break them down into steps that you can accomplish in less than an hour.
I don`t know about you, but I`m always more encouraged by lots of check marks on a page!
Also, if your husband isn`t as encouraging as you would like, be sure to collect a number of unconditional supporters - virtual or real. Having a network to offer ideas, cheer you on, and celebrate successes will create the feedback loop you seem to be missing.
Keep at it!
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