Wow - what a tough call you have. Being in your shoes in the past, here are the some of the quick questions I would ask myself:
1. Do you believe the owners will be able to support your salary?
2. Do you feel comfortable voicing your concerns and communicating what is and isn`t working for you and the firm?
3. Do you like what you are doing?
4. Is the investment in lower salary now for potential gold mine later something you are willing and able to undertake?
I agree w/ Steve in that not all people know how to be good bosses. And lets face it, you have to have some level of ego to be an entrepreneur. With that ego, they tend to rub people the wrong way, especially those that might not be the happiest of campers.
If I were you & could answer yes to the questions above, I would have a sit down w/ both parties, air the issues, and decide how to proceed. If the owners aren`t open to doing this, perhaps you have your answer the easy way. If they are, things could get better. If they don`t, you know where you stand & can make a decision at that point.
Good luck to you & I am interested to hear how you handle it & what transpires.

A few other thoughts:
Are you secure enough to handle being without a job? That is, when you have a talk with them (and you should) they may ask you to leave...are you ok with that? have another job to go to?
Did you sign any contract or agreement about your employment arrangement? Does it specify wages, options, or a promise of future wages? with any conditions? Define your role, job duties?
Did you sign a noncompete agreement? Is the code you`ve developed copyrighted / protected?
Re: your talk... you should have it. Certainly express your view of what your role in the company is... your job responsibilities. Ask if your view is correct? Point out the flaws in the web design and ask why others were hired to do that job, if it was supposed to be your responsibility.
What you consider a lie (about funding) may not be an intentional deception on their part. So, be careful not to label their actions as such. You should express your concern about funding and suggest all employees should be kept up to date on how that is going.
You got stock options? I`m sure this company is not publicly traded. So, esentially you have a promise (option) to own a piece of the company (through shares of stock) correct? This also supports a reason for you to talk with them... you have or may have an ownership interest in the company.
~Roland
Hi optimusprime,
If you have doubts about the viability of the company, now might be the time to secure a more stable job. I’ve worked for a number of companies that failed or cut staff. There were indictors each time this happened. So before the ax falls, get your resume’ out. Don’t wait for the pink slip and then try to finance a job search. It’s really difficult to search for a new job with little or no money.