Single? Go out on a bunch of dates. Make an effort to have a two-way conversation, regardless of your level of attraction. Be excruciatingly honest with your date but package the words thoughtfully. [ So much of life is marketing, whether you`re selling yourself or an idea. ] When you get to the point where you get call backs from many of your dates, you`ll know you`ve learned to communicate. People on dates are looking for connection, and that doesn`t happen without communication.