My current situation is similar in some respects so I understand how you feel.
My wife and I started our business earlier this year with the goal of
me escaping from cubicle nation. She`s already working full time in the
new business. My day job "working for the man" is developing software
for an engineering consultancy with offices in the US, Europe and Asia.
Just last month we (the US programmers) were told our jobs would be
going to eastern Europe effective the end of the year. My job for the
rest of the year is to wrap up any programs currently in the works and
to teach my European replacements how to do my job.
Talk about mixed emotions.
I see it as the company encouraging me to do what I wanted to do
anyway. Now I have a firm deadline to do it. My goal is to kick butt
(where can I get a pair of those ButtKicker shoes

) and get this business off the ground and flying by then.
If you`re serious about going into business for yourself, I encourage you to go for it.
If you do, you don`t have a day or a dollar to waste. Two books I recommend are (obviously)
StartupNation:Open for Business and
Bootstrapping your Business. There`s some overlap between them but I recommend reading both.
It`s time to get over scared, pick an idea, get serious and get
started. Don`t fall for any get rich quick schemes. You want a real
business.
You`ll find no better support group than the StartupNation community.
Tell us about your background, your location, and some of your ideas.
Be open to input and we`ll help you reach this goal. You may hear
conflicting advice but a wise man once wrote,
without counsel purposes are disappointed: but in the multitude of counsellors they are established. After considering the advice given, you choose your own path because you`re the one who has to walk it.
The day may come when you`ll send your current employer a thank-you card for the favor they did you. I plan to.
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Steve - Kirk Foods, LLC home of the
Gluten Free Cookie Factory - To reach any significant goal, you must leave your comfort zone. - Hyrum W. Smith, Founder, Franklin Quest