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OldNikko

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Feb 25, 2009 10:19 AM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Bev, I do believe you get it!
 
Great job.


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MattThomas

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Feb 25, 2009 5:21 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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I believe someone said, "use what you have to get what you want" Well, if you use your natural appeal--you can get the world!  I think as we age we do understand that fact.


Excellent point. Lets not leave out the fact that if you have intelligence and experience, that will likely wow a potential client or associate as well. So not only "using what you got" in terms of appearance, but savvy as well will bring you the most.

Intelligence alone won`t always get you much, but neither will professional appearance all by itself. It is the TOTAL presentation that will have the greatest effect.


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Feb 26, 2009 2:25 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Great topic!  I think that sex appeal is in the eye of the beholder.  Therefore, all I can suggest is that you look and feel your best before you present yourself to a potential employer, etc.

Did you notice I used "feel" your best as well as look?  Well, how we feel about ourselves is what we are projecting.  Ever walk into a place acting like you belong there, and no one asks who you are or for ID?  Try it, it works, but you have to be confident and create that reality that you belong.  We actually create other`s perception of us.  I know I`m not the best looking person in the world, and yet people are attracted to me, because I`m FUN!  I am a nice person, interesting and interested in others.  I genuinely compliment people on some aspect of their being - a smile, a tie, jewelry, kindness...  

And I know my stuff.

So you choose how you want to view it, and that`s what others will see in you. 

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MattTurpin

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Feb 26, 2009 8:42 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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First impressions are everything. Your appearance is your first impression. Before you even open your mouth, you`ve already been judged and stereotyped according to the life experiences of the person involved. Stereotype is a bad word, and prejudice (prejudging) is too, but we all do it. It`s a natural self defense mechanism since you can`t feasibly get to know everyone in the world. You make snap judgements on first sight. These judgements are surprisingly hard to overcome. It`s vital to make sure you get judged favorably. This means dressing to impress. Not everyone can look sexy, but everyone should try as hard as possible. Not looking as attractive as possible is entering a contest with one hand tied behind your back. Why handicap yourself? Make the first impression a good one. Look damn good and you`ll be on the interviewer`s good list until you screw up. Look mediocre and you`ve got an uphill battle to prove yourself.

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houseofjerkyjanie

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Feb 27, 2009 12:21 AM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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After reading this thread I`d just like to say,... Thomas knows what he`s talking about!
"Style always sells, long after gravity takes its toll on all of us"
 
And Babyboomerbev said: What does that mean?  Do we still live in a society where our lack of attractive qualities would keep us from getting a job? 
 
Aging has nothing to do with attractiveness,style or class. Things just change a little. And all this about it doesn`t matter as much about Men when they age...maybe not for your job, but did you ask us gals what we think? :) 
 
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houseofjerkyjanie2/27/2009 9:22 AM
buffedstuff

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Feb 27, 2009 11:49 AM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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First impressions are everything. Your appearance is your first impression. Before you even open your mouth, you`ve already been judged and stereotyped according to the life experiences of the person involved. Stereotype is a bad word, and prejudice (prejudging) is too, but we all do it. It`s a natural self defense mechanism since you can`t feasibly get to know everyone in the world. You make snap judgements on first sight. These judgements are surprisingly hard to overcome. It`s vital to make sure you get judged favorably. This means dressing to impress. Not everyone can look sexy, but everyone should try as hard as possible. Not looking as attractive as possible is entering a contest with one hand tied behind your back. Why handicap yourself? Make the first impression a good one. Look damn good and you`ll be on the interviewer`s good list until you screw up. Look mediocre and you`ve got an uphill battle to prove yourself.
 
I agree 100% whether we like it or not(no it is so not fair) but we are all simply breathing advertisements. You are your own billboard and people are reading you all the time.
 
 
houseofjerkyjanie

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Feb 27, 2009 5:18 PM ET    Quote  Report Abuse
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Twitter is getting to me.  I wanted to start this post... @MattTurpin. :) 
 
Anyway, I don`t know how I missed your post here.  You make a lot of sense!
 
Janie
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